Flirting vs surveillance

November 5, 2025

😳 Flirting vs. surveillance: Young men are dodging dating like it’s jury duty, all due to the fear of being secretly filmed and turned into social media content. One guy said the risk of public shame outweighs the potential romance. Every table at Cheesecake Factory is now a reality show set. Imagine your biggest date guffaw going viral while you’re still chewing breadsticks.

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Unleash your inner IT overlord

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I read every comment you leave at the end of this newsletter, and one theme always stands out: You want to know all the hidden things your tech can do!

Lucky for you, uncovering those “I had no idea!” moments is my superpower.

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⚡️ 3-second tech genius: Having internet issues? Restart it the right way. Unplug your modem and router, wait 30 seconds, then plug in the modem first. When the lights are back, plug in the router and wait two minutes.

Ransomware hackers upped the game, and it’s personal

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If you read one thing today, let it be this, because the rules of ransomware have officially changed, and not in a “Yay, innovation!” kind of way.

For years, the scam was simple: Hackers locked up your computer, holding your files hostage and demanding a ransom in Bitcoin for a promise to give your data back.

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🔓 This $130 lock got picked with a water can

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You know I love a good tech takedown, and this one is peak internet.

Meet Trevor McNally, a former U.S. Marine staff sergeant turned full-time YouTuber with a very specific hobby: lock picking. On his channel, he tests locks the way most of us test leftovers, with low expectations and a lot of curiosity.

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Been on Facebook for years? You might have a pile of unread DMs hiding in your Message requests folder. That’s where Meta keeps chats from anyone outside your friends list. To check, open the app and tap the Messenger icon > Settings > Message requests > You may know. Who knows, maybe a childhood friend is still waiting on a reply.

What did they say? It’s tough keeping up with all the new slang flying around on social media. That’s where Urban Dictionary saves the day. Look up any phrase your kids might drop, like “no cap” or “bussin.” The top-voted definitions appear first, so you’ll finally know if you’ve been complimented or roasted.

⚡️ 3-second tech genius: Want a clock on your Kindle? In a book, tap the Aa icon > More > and turn on Show Clock While Reading. The time will appear at the top of the screen.

🖥️ Bought a high refresh rate monitor? Make sure it’s actually running at full speed and not stuck at 60 Hz. Go to Settings > System > Display > Advanced display. Select your monitor (top right), then pick 144 Hz or 240 Hz under Choose a refresh rate. If you don’t see those options, get an HDMI 2.0 or DisplayPort cable.

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